SORRY!!! What do you guys think bout this word? Is it a word said by someone when he/she had broken ones heart or is it a word that people take for granted?
It is something we need to ponder upon, the way we were brought up has a tremendous impact on our life to be, because when we were young we were thought to say SORRY when we had done something wrong right? So, with this stigma sticks in our mind that "Oh when i've done something wrong towards a person, i must say sorry" for instance we say SORRY when we hit others, we say SORRY when we "broke" someones heart either by our words or deeds, we say SORRY when we know and are aware of our mistakes...
However, if we see this word SORRY in a different perspectives, we can learn to grow to be more matured and we can learn to express our professionalism when we are dealing with others... for example people will have good thoughts about us when we say SORRY for the things that might had an impact on others life, or when we are in a team...we say SORRY when the team losses something important because of our attitude...
But many people uses the word SORRY falsely or take for granted on this word SORRY just because they did something wrong "intentionally" without taking into account of ones feelings...for instance when we are in a team and we are assign to carry out certain projects and the projects fail because of our attitude that might have cause the team a big loss... we simply say SORRY and thats it....because according to human tradition ones a person says SORRY it means that he had realized his wrong doings and has repented... but sadly..some people take it for granted...the same person would say the word SORRY over and over again...without repenting... some of us, when someone says SORRY to us.. we are not and wont be ready to accept their SORRY... instead we expect them to accept ours...this is called EGO and SELF-CENTERED person...
So what i'm trying to say, that we should know and realize our mistakes and not take for granted on the word SORRY...
I know no one is perfect and none will be but we could always try to be perfect right???
Because we humans sometimes don't realize what we had done until we sit quietly and think back of our past... we think that we are correct and others are wrong... some of us are just not ready to accept others opinion...
So... please try to accept others as they are... and do things for others as how we expect things from others...People around us is a gift from GOD...so we should cherish and thank GOD for those people...who make our life's so beautiful and meaningful....
Tanxxx @ Reading....
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